Dunno wat happened recently.
Many frens felt quite down & makes mi sad 2 c them down too... =(

Frens , Cheer up k? Anyting juz gif mi a call/sms/ meet up~!
I'm owez be here for u guys~! ^_^
I may not be a good consultant for u guys, but i'm owez prepare 2 lend u guys my ears / shoulder 2 u..
Tat's wat frens for...

For career prob, i cnt help much... U nd 2 noe wat u want, wat's ur direction.. Gt ur vision clr b4 u do anyting.. Tink twice b4 u act ya... Do wat u want/ like, don't do sth u dun like & regret it..
$$ is impt but u muz ENJOY e job as well... Hope u dun owez over weight by e $$ instead of ur interest....
$$ is not everyting...
Learn 2b contented enuf...
"If u CHANGE e way u look at e ting, e ting u look at CHANGED~!"


For BGR prob, i'm really juz an outsider... Wat i can do juz listen 2 ur story... If dis is wat u really want, go for it~! Do wat u WANT~!
"It's juz a matter of wat u WANT not wat u can~!"
Wat i can advise is Dun miz e chance b4 it's too late... E result may not turn out +ve, but at least u try it out~! At least u tried ur best & no regrets for e rest of ur life...
It's sad & such a pity if u juz miz e chance/let go w/o trying...
Juz follow ur heart, ur feeling...
Ur heart will tell u wat 2 do, which direction u shld heading for..

For other probs in life, tk it ez... Everything has a solution for it~! Let nature takes its cause..
It's owez easier to say rather than do it... However, if u tink +ve, tings will turn out +ve eventually~! Tat's for sure coz u haf e +ve mindset...
When sth is byond our ctrl, juz tk it ez... let nature tks its cause...
When time is ripe, u noe wat 2 do...
Dun torture urself by forcing urself~!

As what i owez tell u guys, aft so many tings happened over years, ppl changed...
Now, I onli hope that ...
I'm be able 2 lead a simple + happy life everyday...
ENJOY e life, CHERISH wat i haf, Do wat i WANT...
When u WANT it, juz GO FOR IT~! U CAN DO IT~!
Trust urself~!
Grab e CHANCE, Do ur best in everyting~! Try out while u can b4 it's too late...
Be grateful 4 everyting...
Tk it ez... Let nature takes its cause...
Dun wori, Be happy~!
^_^

Cheer up my frens~! Gambatteh ya~!
Lead a happy life ahead~! =p
Frens 4eva~!

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Some keys of life stated in e book 'The Secret' :-
"Law of attractions works~!"
"Be confidence, Believe in urself~! "
"Be grateful ~! Thank god in e early in e morning while u wake up coz u r still alive~!"

=========================Equations ===================================
Think too much -> Upset
Comparison + Demanding + Forcing-> Unhappy + Sad + Torturing
Missed e chance + Let go w/o trying -> Regret + Misery

Relax mind+ Contented enuf -> Happy
Cherish wat u've + Do wat u want -> Satisfied + Blissful
Grab e chance + try ur best -> Happy+ Satisfaction + blissful
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{*(oo)*}

Juz some meaningful quotes 2 share:-

==================== Quotes ==========================
"Life is full of uncertainties,
Yesterday was history, Tomorrow is a mystery ,Today is a gift,
That's y we call it PRESENT~!
Live in Present, Cherish what you have~! Enjoy ur life~!
活在当下，珍惜现在拥有的。享受人生。"

"Life is short & unpredictable,
It's not a matter of what you CAN or CANNOT do.
It's a matter of what you WANT or DON'T WANT to do
Learnt from lessons, don't repeat the history.
经一事，长一智。"

"There are bound to have regrets in life ,
But at least u tried it out & u noe wat's e taste of it.
U'll never know if u never try.
As long as u haf e courage 2 try it out,
Nvr leave regrets in ur life
人生难免有遗憾，只要肯尝试，至少今生无悔。"


"Life is short, DO what u WANT,
CHERISH what u HAVE,
ENJOY ur life!
人生有多少个十年？最重要的是痛快！"

"Life is tough enough,
So keep ur mind simple,
Lead a simple & happy life!
Enjoy the essense of life~!
简单生活，享受人生!"

"Learn 2b contented & satisfy with what u've got.
U'll get the essense of life ---> HAPPINESS
知足常乐, 有花生吃总好过没花生吃."

"Life is full of choices,
U prefer a simple + happy life or
U prefer a complicated + miserable life?"

"Life is short,
Don't missed the chance before it's too late."

"If u meet e wrong person @ e right time -> it's a misery
If u meet e right person @ e wrong time -> it's a pity
If u meet e right person @ e right time -> it's a bless
If u let go e right person -> it's a regret
If u cherish e right person -> U found ur happiness"

"There r many thing byond our ctrl.
What u can do is know what u WANT,
Get ur direction clear, follow ur heart,
Have confidence, U CAN DO IT~! "

"Our brain is used to think some in rational way,
Not to make ourselves think too much & live in misery."

"If u change the way u look at things,
The things u look at CHANGED.
Do u haf e courage/mind to CHANGE? "

"Think out of the box,
See things in different angle,
U'll feel better and boost up ur CREATIVITY "

"Money is not everything,
Money can buy you many things but not HAPPINESS! "

"Comparison leads to UNHAPPINESS!"

"Out of all difficulties, makes miracles!"

"Follow ur heart..
It'll guides u & tell u wat 2 do.."

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The scene below took place @toast box @centre point.
It touches mi alot & made mi think of my late grandpa & aunt...
All this onli happens w/i 10mins...

An old lady with white hair, sitting on wheelchair went to toast box with her son, daughter-in-law & grandson.
The filial daughter-in-law is taking photos of the old lady... She tooks every single shoot of the old lady...
The old lady took e sandwich, look @ e camera & smile happily...

E old lady cnt bite e bread, so she juz tk e butter & kaya...
I was asked to help them tk a photo.. Indeed, a luving photo....
E old lady smile happily... Happy family....
Aft tat, e old lady said 'Actually i cant bite/taste e bread, everyting is tasteless for mi now... But, i still 1 2 tk it coz i'm glad & contented tat i'm alive, having a chance 2 eat bread wif my family.
I hope i can haf a bread everyday wif family till e day i died... '
She smile happily again & her daughter-in-law take e photo of her again~!
Tat's e best photo i ever seen~!
Aft tat, i knew tat e family will buy 1 bread 4 e old lady & sit down 2 eat e bread wif her & tk her photo everyday.. No matter how buz they were, they will juz sit down for 30mins, haf bread + coffeee wif e old lady, tking photos... Among all e photos they took, e old lady smile happily...

Out of sudden, i felt quite touched... I oso dunno y... Mayb i seldom c such a happy scene in dis city...
My eyes turn red for a moment & i began 2 tink of my late grandpa....

E day b4 my grandpa died, he asked mi 'wat time izzit? shall we go tk dinner?' I replied 'It's still early now, u go tk first ba..' Then, he went 2 dining table alone, we prep e dishes 4 him, gif him his fav guiness & he's eating alone.... Tat was e last time i spoke 2 him...
Nxt day i went 2 c him again, he was lying on bed... He din say anyting tat nite... I stand bside his bed, he's breathing louder & louder... Out of sudden, thr's silence in e air... I cried out loud & everybody rush into his bedroom... He juz left dis world peacefully....

I started 2 blame myself...
Y i nvr spent e time 2 haf e last dinner wif him e day b4? Y i let him tk dinner alone?? Y i cnt finish my work later? Now i dun even haf a chance 2 haf a simple dinner wif him anymore.... I'm so guilty & regret aft tat...
子欲养而亲不在..

Aft tat, I tried my best 2 spend @least 30mins haf dinner wif family & frens...
Juz a simple dinner/meal , tat's gd enuf..
U wont noe wat will happen 2ml...
Life is short, so cherish wat u haf now...


My frens, haf u ever tink of e following:-

R u buz wif work everyday? Haf u ever sit down for 30mins , tk a bread wif ur family? How often u sit down & tk a simple meal wif ur family /frens? Work & family, which is more impt 2 u? Is $$ impt 2 u?
We owez say 'time is money'.. but i'd rather say 'time is much more precious than money'...
We may owez complaining time is nt enuf, money nt enuf... but, izzit true?? Haf u ever ask urself, "Wat's e meaning of 'CONTENTED'? R u contented wif wat u haf now? "

For elders, they r contented enuf tat if u can spend time wif them.. Haf a 30mins meal... As wat e old lady said, she's contented enuf tat she can eat e bread wif her family everyday ...
How abt u? R u contented enuf wif wat u haf? Wat mks u feel tat u r contented wif wat u've now?

Human beings r greedy & owez demanding... We owez tend to ask for more... tat's y we owez complain alot...
Everybody has diff views in life...

E more u demand, e more u suffer...
E more u contented , e happier u r...
Which option will u choose? It's up to individual...

Quote:

"CHERISH wat u've now...
APPRECIATE wat u've gt...
ENJOY wateva u can... "

=======================Esp 2 my buddy =================================
Bro,
I believe u saw e scene u'll feel e same wif mi...
If u were e person who tk e photo, u'll understand e feeling...
Those feeling r unable 2 describe in words...

U r owez complaining abt $$ nt enuf, job nt gd, boring life etc...
But haf u ever tink tat's really impt in ur life?? Time or $$$??

Life is short, dun waste ur time on complaining...
e more u complain , e more u wont feel contented enuf...
comparison leads to misery...
Cherish wat u've now....

Need to repeat my old quotes & words 2 u again...


知足常乐....

凡事看开一点，
烦恼少一点，快乐多一点；
忧愁少一点，开心多一点；
痛苦少一点，幸福多一点。

人生苦短，
开心也是一天，伤心也是一天，
何不天天开心，享受人生？
^_^